It is love, it is.  Not belittleing anyone who's had stuff nicked fro their car, apart from having a car of my own nicked and trashed, culprit known, caught, and released for 'lack of evidence' and apart from eldest daughter's car being torched outside our hose, culprit again known, and still walking the street, the nastiest one also involves eldest daughter, now 19, and involves a man older than me, and goes back to a time when she was much younger.  Barstard pervert is also still free.